Just to let you guys know, I'm 21 and very close to graduation.

Last weekend at a bar I was shit-faced. I'm talking visibly blacked out. It may have been the most alcohol I have consumed since freshmen year. Anyway, there's this older lady there, probably ~45 or so, not 100% certain. Long story short, I used to hit on her when I was almost as fucked up until one day it came to my attention that she had a husband so I stopped. However, this past weekend put my morals to the test when she grabbed my dick through the outside of my jeans and proceeded to kiss me. Basically once my drunk ass realized what I was actually doing I walked away (not sure how long that took). Unfortunately, the women's husband is friends with the owner of the bar and or the wife is actually actually his sister. There are rumors that he sells cocaine ect.. not sure how true those are. To get to the point I am unsure of what to do. These locals seem like crazy ass hicks who wouldn't hesitate to stab you with a beer bottle. To make matters a little worse around a half hour later (drunk time) I saw her on the dance floor and walked close to her, to which one of the dudes she was with told me to "NO! Get away!"

How would you guys go about handling this? Say if they saw you around town and confronted you. Deny it ever happened? Say you were blacked out? I'm genuinely scared for my well-being. Also if it accounts for anything I feel like a piece of shit for you husbands out there.

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"Do Your Worst, For I Shall Do Mine"

Forget about it man, stuff like that probably happens all the time to this woman. You're lucky that the people around her didn't do more than just sternly warn you off but the truth is, if it was going to get ugly it was probably going to get ugly then and there. I REALLY wouldn't go back to that bar though.

If they confront you then it's time for some fast talkin' namely something like:

"Dude, what can I say? I'm sorry and I understand why you're mad. She came on to me when I was fucked up. As far as I'm concerned it won't happen again so maybe I'm not the one you need to be talking to. Like I said, I'm sorry. So are we square?"

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Reread each one of these sentences a couple of times, Brooklyn is completly spot on. I'm going to just back up each one of them.

1. You're a 21 year old horny drunk kid (horny and drunk enough to mess with this 45 year old), she's a hard luck woman who's been rode hard for longer than you've been alive. The people at this bar understand this.

2. Since they understand it, they kept you away with a warning instead of fucking you up on the spot. So you're probably okay.

3. But just because you got off easy, don't push your luck. You could go there and they could all be cool, or you could go there and one of them is pissed off about anything, see your face and feel justified in letting off some steam by beating you up. You're okay, just stay the hell away for a while.

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Don't wanna be a fatty no more...I AIN'T A FATTY I JUST EAT A LOT!

First off, you did nothing wrong, doesn't mean you can't get your ass handed to you. Secondly, avoid that bar for at least 3 months. When you make shit and come right back next weekend those retards in there take it as an serious insult. That hoe probably gonna grab a few cocks more in that time and then you will become thing of the past. Don't make eye contact with guys she is associated with once you go back there. If somebody mentions this to you deny it, you don't want that to be a topic talked about. Don't talk to anybody about this in real life, it may get back to her husband.

You're probably ok, just avoid that place and avoid talking about it. If the guy knew about it and he's some "badass cocaine dealer" he'd threat you. Avoid the place, 3 months at least, but I wouldn't show up there for half a year, since you're scared.

If there's some heat dumbest thing you can do is show up there the next weekend. Once I was out with this retard, t he was "poking" and seducing this bouncer's wife over facebook. He found out about it and sent threats to him. So we showed up at this place and got a slap over his face that almost knocked him out and if it weren't me and my friend there, that knew other bouncers he'd spent the rest of the night lying somewhere on concrete.

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I spent a lot of money on drinks, women and fast cars. I wasted the rest. - George Best

Stop going to that bar.

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Forging Elite Fitness

ice just advised you to avoid the poontang, so you know it's serious.

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The only thing I need clarification on is being you are 21, and posting about this, are you closer to graduating High School? hehehehe

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Go back to the bar and find her husband. Walk up to him and grab his junk and kiss him. Everything will be even and square and you can stop worrying. Just remember if things go any further with the wife what you will have to do to make things right and act accordingly.

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Haha, I'm feeling some of the responses. And yeah, I've made out with girls that have had boyfriends no problem (well, except for one of my friends getting sucker punched this one time). However, in today's world you get killed for spilling a drink, especially if the other party is intoxicated.

I'm just going to give it a few weeks and then go back to the bar. Best specials in town.

To clarify on the one suggestion about doing what I did to her to the husband. Does this mean that he has to grab my piece as we are mackin?

Regardless, this is the first time I've ever been a home-wrecker. I don't like it as much as I thought I would. The cougar aspect however, .

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"Do Your Worst, For I Shall Do Mine"