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In my last entry, I stated that healthy foods often taste better than even the best junk food. The message that I hope to convey is that living a healthy lifestyle does not mean that you are deprived of life’s joys. Healthy does not equal deprivation. Healthy living is joyful living.

I received a few harsh responses to the entry however that essentially proved my original point. One responder said the following:

“Who are you to tell me what I should eat? I only have one life to live so I’ll enjoy it.”

This statement proves the original theory. The responder clearly senses deprivation when confronted with dietary change. When faced with deprivation, it’s natural to fight back with a why must we give something up mentality. This single response summarizes the problem with dieting as a whole. Diets lack long term success because the dieter feels as though he is deprived. You can only go on so long living with a sense of deprivation. This is the exact reason why we must educate those with weight problems regarding the healthy (and tasty) options that exist. You CAN and SHOULD enjoy your life. Life is too short already!

In addition, I’m not telling anyone what to eat. We all make our own decisions. I’m simply telling you that tasty foods can and should be a part of a healthy lifestyle. You don’t need to give up taste. Learn how to cook and you’ll find that many of the tastiest meals are actually healthy as well. I eat tasty meals every day of the week.

Living With Balance

Other responses to the entry suggested a balanced lifestyle. This would mean eating healthy foods much of the time, with an occasional treat every now and then.  I’m all for such a plan.

I simply caution you against living your life anxiously awaiting your next cheat meal. For example, I know someone who has a scheduled cheat meal on every Saturday. I’ll run into him on a Monday and he’s already anxious for the week to pass so he can get to Saturday’s meal. He lives 6 days of the week in deprivation.

Health isn’t defined by the size of your waistline. It isn’t healthy (mentally) to live all week waiting for a chance to cheat from your normal schedule. You should enjoy each day to the fullest. I don’t crave cheat meals, simply because I eat tasty (healthy) food every day of the week. I’m not deprived of taste, and my body feels good afterwards. On the other hand, if I’m out with company and a cheat meal presents itself, I don’t lose sleep over it. I recently enjoyed ice cream with my son on his birthday. We all had a great time. I didn’t dream about the ice cream before and after the event however. It comes and goes, but each day in between is still enjoyed. I don’t live each day with the mindset that something is missing. No one should, and that is the entire point to my original entry. 

Lastly, I’m all for self discipline, but it is clear that many are lacking in this department.   Take a look at the obesity rates in the world.  Telling someone to toughen up rarely works.  The obese know that it isn’t healthy to live obese.  This awareness obviously isn’t enough for widespread change.  If we focused more time stressing the positives of a healthy lifestyle, I’m sure that we would see more willing to convert.  As has been said many times, you’ll catch more flies with sugar… 

Ross

I’d like to clarify some confusion that has sprouted from a prior entry. The confusion came from the following statement:

“I don’t eat cheat meals simply because I don’t like feeling like crap for the rest of the day. I prefer the taste of real food and also feel much better (physically) afterwards.”

Some readers misinterpreted my comments, and believed that I was referring to a psychological feeling. Please note that my comments were related to the physical after effects that often follow junk food consumption. An abbreviated list includes stomach pains, heartburn, indigestion, sluggishness, and nausea. I can’t count how many times I’ve seen someone shovel junk food down their mouth, only to complain for hours afterwards about how bad they now feel (physically). In my opinion, no food is worth this kind of misery.

One of the problems with dieting is the perception that you will somehow be deprived of certain pleasures in life. This perception is everything but true however. If we ever hope to slow the obesity problem in the world today, we need to spend more time preaching the benefits of a healthier lifestyle. An obese person already knows that it isn’t good for him. 

Healthy Foods Taste Better

I’m in no way deprived. I don’t live to eat, but I do enjoy a well cooked meal. Healthy foods actually taste better. Unfortunately, most people in this world do not know how to cook. In a response to my last blog entry, Scott Kustes from the Modern Forager (great site) said the following:

“Junk tends to be either overpoweringly sweet or overpoweringly salty. Real food is earthy, minty, sweet, sour, savory, peppery, spicy, etc. I can make 10 different meals from ground beef, onions, and something green just by altering what spices I use.”

Those who struggle with weight problems are often uniformed. They need to realize that we aren’t all crazy. Life is good and we are not missing out on anything. You can’t expect to conquer a weight problem if you live the rest of your life in a perceived state of deprivation. I don’t live my life waiting for the next cheat meal to come along. I eat tasty foods every day of the week.

We all make choices based on personal preferences. You buy the shoes that you like. You buy the pants that you like. There is always a selection that you must wade through before coming to a purchase decision. The same idea holds true for food. You choose what foods you buy. And while some of the decision making process may be based on weekly sales or availability, much of the decision is based on what you want. What do you want to eat and why?

Unfortunately, the answers to this question rarely make sense. For example, who said that cereal is a breakfast food? Did our ancestors wake up and eat a bowl of Cocoa Puffs? Who came along and appointed cereal as the preferred breakfast food?

Perhaps a large commercial enterprise made the decision for you? Using Cocoa Puffs as the example, check out the financial statement from General Mills (the packaged food company that makes Cocoa Puffs):

General Mills

The food industry is in business to make money. Much of the world’s eating habits came from these powerful companies. As I quoted before:

“We first make our habits, and then our habits make us.” - John Dryden

Unfortunately, someone else has made many of our habits for us. The habit maker has priorities that do not involve your health and well being.  Many modern habits are polar opposites to what the body actually needs. To overcome a problem with weight, you need to make new habits. These habits will not deprive you of anything. On the contrary, your quality of life will improve.

Over-eating bad food isn’t a reward.  Perhaps someone else told you that it is, but when you consider the pros and cons, it simply doesn’t make sense.  No one needs to over eat to enjoy life.  Once you change your shopping habits, this will become more and more clear to you.  Life’s greatest rewards do not include shoveling food down your mouth to the point of discomfort. 

When I wake up early in the morning, it is common to see deer in my backyard.  There are woods behind my house.  The deer eat various grasses, weeds, herbs, etc.  The woods are loaded with greens.  A deer could eat all day if he wanted to do so.  But guess what?  I’ve never seen an obese deer stroll through my yard.  And surprisingly, there aren’t deer appointed nutritionists or personal trainers.  The deer simply eat the way they were intended to eat.  Most humans in today’s world do not.  Perhaps we could all learn something from a less intelligent animal.   

Ross

We all have habits.  Unfortunately, more and more people seem to be living with more and more bad habits.  Take a look at the video below…

Listen how Jack describes the shopping experience at the grocery store. Does it strike anyone else as odd that his words are still true in today’s world?  It’s as if nothing has changed.  The bad habits that Jack identified still plague our society today.  I’m always shocked at the garbage that I see loaded in shopping carts.  It’s amazing that many of these items can even be passed off as food. 

You Can’t Eat What You Don’t Buy

When pondering your own shopping habits, it is useful to fall back on the advice of past poet John Dryden.  In his words,

We first make our habits, and then our habits make us.

Now think how these words can apply to someone who is trying to lose weight.  If you never buy junk food, how will you eat it in the middle of the night?  You can’t eat what you don’t buy.  By simply changing your shopping habits at the grocery store, you can begin to change your life (our habits make us).

As I’ve said before, often times the best advice is the most simplistic.  If you want to lose weight, stop looking for quick fixes and temporary plans.  If you really want to lose weight permanently, be prepared for a lifestyle change.  Start with the basics.  Shop the perimeter of your grocery store.  Shop your local farmer’s markets (great way to often save money).  Eat real food (ex. plants, animals, fish, etc.). 

If such foods were all you ever bought, it is actually difficult to become (or stay) overweight.  No one becomes fat by eating too many carrots and apples, and no one opens your mouth and forces you to eat junk.   And just in case you didn’t know, healthy foods are often far tastier than even your favorite junk food.  

Personally, I don’t count calories and I don’t count nutrient ratios.  I don’t count anything.  I eat healthy, fresh, real food throughout the day.  I eat to live, rather than living to eat.  I find joy in life and activity, not by pigging out at the dinner table.  I don’t eat cheat meals simply because I don’t like feeling like crap for the rest of the day.  I prefer the taste of real food and also feel much better (physically) afterwards.  Don’t be fooled into thinking that you need a cheat meal.  If you are eating the way you should, you’ll be eating tasty meals all along. 

I’m not suggesting that we all become fanatics, but don’t live your life waiting for the next cheat meal.  I enjoyed some ice cream on my son’s birthday this past weekend.  I’m not a food freak.  I do however prefer the taste of fresh/real food over any artificial/processed junk.  Eating real food is one habit that I’ll keep for the rest of my life. 

Ross

Hungry for chicken?   You may have a change of heart after watching this video…

As mentioned in a past entry, support your local farmers.

Ross

Men’s Health recently posted a new article where “secrets” are revealed from the restaurant industry.  The list below will make you think twice about your next trip to one of these chain restaurants. 

16 Secrets The Restaurant Industry Does Not Want You To Know

When I take my family out for a meal, we head to one of the smaller Mom and Pop restaurants.  I stay away from these larger chains, and after reading this article, I won’t be changing any time soon.

Ross

New research suggests that diets high in fast food can be toxic to the liver and other internal organs, but the damage can be reversed. 

Fast Food Liver Damage Can Be Reversed

There are a few interesting tidbits that can be extracted from the link above.  First, it shouldn’t take a rocket scientist to recognize that fast food doesn’t exactly classify as a health food.   Oddly enough however, I drive by a few fast food chains every afternoon and there are always cars lined up around the drive-through window.  It’s nice to see a study that comes out and identifies some specific risks (liver damage in this case).  There are people in this world who won’t listen to common sense advice.  Once you mention specific health problems however, they are more likely to listen. 

Another important point emphasized within the research is our remarkable ability to rebound and recover from past abuse.  As stated by Brent Tetri, M.D., professor of internal medicine at the Saint Louis University Liver Center and one of the country’s leading experts on non-alcoholic fatty liver disease:

“The good news is that most people can undo this damage if they change their diet and they keep physically active…”

In laymen’s terms, it is never too late to get started.  The past is the past, and it doesn’t need to define your future.  You have the ability to redefine who you are and what you are all about.

The Good, Now The Bad…

There is another paragraph from the link above that must not be forgotten.  It made me sick to my stomach (worse than you’d feel after shoveling down 5 Bic Mac’s). 

Here is the specific quote from Dr. Tetri:

“The fact we’re starting to see kids with liver disease should really be a wake-up call for anyone eating a diet high in fat and sugar and who’s not physically active…”

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How does a kid eat so much junk that he or she develops liver disease?   What is wrong with this picture?  Kids don’t drive themselves to the fast food restaurant.  Not to mention, who is buying the food?   Are parents paying their kids 6 figure allowances?  How does a young kid pay for enough fast food (and other junk) to give himself liver disease? 

Before becoming a parent, I may not have even noticed Tetri’s quote within the article.  I would have likely scanned over it without much thought.  Now that I am a parent however, I can’t imagine how anyone could allow something like this to happen to their children.  I’d give my life for my son.  He comes first before anything.  Stuffing him with enough fast food to cause liver disease borderlines on child abuse.  Parents need to wake up and get a clue.  Like it or not, but your kids will imitate your actions.  If you spend most of your time eating junk, chances are little Johnny is going to do the same.  You may not care about your health, but you better care about the health of your children. 

It is really hard to understand certain people in this world.

Ross

In Jack’s words, “If man made it, don’t eat it!”

But how do you go about finding local farmers in your area?  Here is one excellent resource:

Eatwild Directory of Farms 

Also, be sure to check out the rest of the Eat Wild site.  You’ll find loads of information regarding REAL food found in nature.

Ross

More classic advice from Jack…

In case you didn’t notice, I’m a big fan of Jack Lalanne.  He’s been speaking the truth about health and nutrition for longer than many of us have been alive.   In the video above, he preaches the importance of fresh/real food.  Eat more fruits, veggies, etc.  

Jack has been preaching this message for years, yet there are still people who ignore his advice.  When I go to the grocery store, I’m shocked at some of the crap that I see loaded in shopping carts.  I’m surprised that some of these items can even be classified as “food” products.  Are they really intended for consumption?

Everyone wants to buy a new diet book, but everyone seems to forget the power of common sense.  Was Jack’s message really that complicated?  It all seems pretty straightforward to me.  Much of his message was based on three simple steps.

1. Regular exercise

2. Good nutrition

3. Positive thinking

Invest some time in yourself.  Make time to include these three simple steps in your daily plan.  That’s it.  Make it happen.  It’s so easy to do, and the benefits are beyond obvious.  Rather than wondering how to make time for these three steps, you should be wondering how the hell you could live without them. 

A lot of people complain about life and are miserable all day.  If they can catch your ear, they’ll bitch and moan about how bad the world has been to them.  They seem to believe the world owes them something.  In their eyes, we all should be handed a silver spoon at the delivery room.

News flash…

Life is what you make of it.  No one said it would be easy, so don’t expect it to be.  Adding the three steps above is easy however.  And by doing so, you’ll improve your quality of living.  You’ll rule your body, rather than letting it rule you.

Seems like a pretty simple decision to me, but what do I know…

Ross

If you answered yes to this question, you may change your mind after reading this report:

Prescription Drugs Found In Drinking Water

As stated within:

A vast array of pharmaceuticals — including antibiotics, anti-convulsants, mood stabilizers and sex hormones — have been found in the drinking water supplies of at least 41 million Americans, an Associated Press investigation shows.

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Reading this kind of report makes one wonder if it is possible to truly live a healthy lifestyle.  Sure, we can all make choices regarding our health, but it appears that more and more factors are out of our control.  There is only so much that one can do to avoid such toxicities. 

Ross

Check out the image below, from Consumer Reports magazine (click the link).  See if you can guess correctly…

Food Compare Image 

The lesson to be learned from this graphic is simple.  It is best to stay away from both columns.  Prepare your own food (real food), and avoid the processed crap that comes from fast food restaurants.

Ross